Tribal Print Tee > Pastel Pink Cropped Pants > What I Wore

My fiance and I had an impromptu beach day, which was nice, since we don't get over to the ocean much nowadays. Every so often, you have to go check on it and make sure it's still there where you left it. 

The chalcedony ring is a piece that I bought probably 7 or more years ago, forgot that I had, until I was getting dressed that morning, and I honestly don't even know where I got it from. The "bracelet" that I'm wearing is actually a necklace that I simply wrapped around my wrist a few times. It was purchased in India and I rarely wear it (or any necklace, for that matter), so the wrist wrap was a good way to utilize it. Try it out with some of the longer necklaces that you may not be getting much use out of!

 Tribal Print T Shirt x Urban Outfitters > Pastel Pink Cropped Slacks x Forever 21 > Suede Sandals x Urban Outfitters > Earrings x Shopbop  

Leopard blouse+Sequined jacket+Cold=Awesomeness

In an effort to be cute and fight a cold while at work, I think I pulled it off pretty smartly.

I like to shop, but lately I've been attempting to be a little more frugal with my money. So I decided to rummage through my closet to see what I have. Through my search I found: a sequined zip-up jacket that I got from H&M. The leopard print button down blouse I got for $4 from Goodwill the day before this picture was taken. The skinny jeans and jewelry are all from Francesca's collections. My booties I got from Payless when Payless was just starting to get a little more pricey about 3 or 4 years ago, however my booties cost me $9.99. The purse is a Steve Madden purse that I purchased from Planet Funk when it was in existence 3 years ago.

I know that this image is blurry, but I wanted to show it to say: No matter what you do and how you feel, just have fun. I was a little sickly and it was the end of the night, but my camera lady made me laugh and captured that moment.

Miss Reke

Pink Tee > Blue Shorts > What I Wore

So, remember when I told you that I currently only own one pair of shorts? Yeah. This is it. Or, rather, these are them. And I actually didn't even have these until a few weeks ago. "How does one go an entire blazing hot summer without a single, solitary pair of shorts?" you may ask. The answer: Dresses. If not for frocks, I would have died. You may be wondering what happened to all of the shorts that I may or may not have owned in the past. Well, I'll tell you. I got a little... um... er... thick... Which isn't necessarily a problem, except... Well, it's done a number on my wardrobe. Right at the start of summer, I unloaded all of my cute Joe's Jeans and Juicy Couture denim shorts at the nearest Crossroads and haven't been able to find replacements since. I look forward to renewing my short search in the spring, but for now, I'll just focus on acquire some much needed fall essentials.

V Neck Tee x Urban Outfitters (Option with pocket here) > High Waisted Shorts x American Apparel > Belt x Target > Necklace x Brookadelphia > Sandals x Steve Madden (Still available, on sale here) > Sunglasses x Forever21 (mine are old as the hills and falling apart)

Dress for the Job You Want: Artsy Professional

'Tis the season for a shiny new job, career upgrade, or fancy promotion! Actually, everyday of the calendar year is just as good as any to go further and do more when it comes to making a living. Someone once told me that you should never not be looking for a new job and I must say that I agree. Even if you're happy in your current position, might it be time for a new title, more responsibility and, above all else, a raise? Despite discouraging news reports about the unemployment rate, there is still opportunity a-plenty out there. You might just be surprised at how a simple change of outlook and attitude can land you a great new gig.

A great place to start with an attitude adjustment is your wardrobe. One of the best pieces of advice that I can ever give to an adult is to dress for the job you want. Do it everyday. So, you work a part time retail job in the mall, but your lifelong dream is to be stylist to the stars? Well, a raggedy pair of jeans, hoody, and a random pair of shoes won't do! You've heard the expression "fake it til' you make it". If your career goal is to make others look fabulous, you should start with yourself. Pretty simple, right?

Right.

Now, this "projection", if you will, works two ways: (1) It builds your own confidence and helps you to visualize yourself in the career that you desire. (2) It makes others see you as that sought after stylist, great American designer, graphic art genius, rock god, or whatever it is that you hope to become. Don't underestimate people's inability to be unimaginative. Many times, you have to paint a clear picture for them, so dressing in a way that conveys your aspirations is extremely important.

Like I said before, do it everyday. Of course, you want to look the part on those interviews, but by no means should you wait until you're being considered for the job of your dreams to look your best. You never know when you might meet a person who's in a position to help you along your career path. Make a great impression on everyone you meet and you just might get where you want to be, faster than you ever imagined.

Tie Dye Maxi Dress > Head Wrap > What I Wore

Maxi skirts and dresses have been my saving grace this past season. This particular one, though newly acquired is quite well worn already. For now, I just like to throw it on with [or without] a belt and some sandals and hit the road, but I'm looking forward to pairing it with jackets, cardies, and close toed shoes for the chilly months ahead.

Tie Dye Dress x C&C California (cute sleeveless option here) > Belt x Urban Outfitters > Head Wrap x Urban Outfitters > Earrings x Peace Images (on sale here)

Tribal Print Sun Dress > What I Wore

Happy October, everyone. Well, the saga continues with this Los Angeles post summer heat. It chilled out a little... Then it returned, more fierce than before. I could barely bring myself to wear any clothes at all, so this little dress is quite an accomplishment. This outfit is also an example of "less is more", since I originally tried to add a belt but kept having to remove it because it just didn't look right. I tried more than one belt, but to no avail. Sometimes, you just have to go with the simplest option!

Dress x Target > Shoes x Nine West > Necklace + Ring x Gorjana > Gold Bangles x Urban Outfitters (mine are old, but there are some cute options here)

The Problem with Wedding Dresses

The problem with wedding dresses is that, in my opinion, they're ugly. Now, that wouldn't be much of an issue if I weren't getting married at the end of the year, and therefore looking for one to wear to this ceremony my fiance and I call ourselves planning. I spent my entire summer looking for a wedding gown and have still yet to find one. When I've walked into bridal shops, this is what the conversation sounded like:

ME: Hi, I'm looking for a simple, elegant wedding gown.

CONSULTANT: When is your wedding?

ME: December 2nd.

CONSULTANT: OF THIS YEAR!?!?!

ME: Ummm... yeah.

CONSULTANT: OH! WELL IT'S TOO LATE TO ORDER ONE! We'll have to find something for you off the rack.

ME: That's fine.

CONSULTANT: What do you have in mind?

ME: Something simple and modern. Mermaid shaped, ivory, strapless. No beading, no appliques, no lace, to pick ups, no shiny material.

CONSULTANT: *blank stare*

And this results in me leaving the shop, with no dress. Apparently, you have to secure your wedding dress as far in advance as possible, since they have to give the silk worms plenty of time to get it together. Also, notice that all of the "style elements" I hate (beading, lace, foolishness) are exactly the things that a respectable wedding dress is made of. Factor in my budget, which dictates that I will not spend 2/10 of a down payment for a house on a dress that I will wear for a few hours. Anybody that does, I don't know what to say to you. In my world, rent and a car note must be paid regularly, I have no benefactors, and children in Africa are starving. Not to mention that fact that I want my future husband and I to be able to actually live after this little cute wedding situation. And we're not going into debt to impress anybody. So, there. Where the bargain wedding dresses at?!?!!

But not the ugly ones.

Actually, it seems that the less poofy and gaudy the dress is, the higher the price. I want to look well put together on my wedding day. Not like a mountain of sparkly whipped cream. I'm 31, not 3.

I blame my wedding gown woes on women who've only ever wanted to be a princess all their lives. Because of them, every dress I try on has to have a flock of geese and a gospel choir attached to the back. That's not what my life is about. Wedding be damned, it is never under any circumstances my desire to appear as though I may be smuggling a family of midgets under my skirt. No,  and thank you.

My current struggle has caused me to reflect on my past experiences with weddings and I recently realized that I've never seen a wedding dress that made me want to slap my Mama. When I see women in wedding gowns, I always think, "Oh, pretty. She's getting married," and it has little to do with the dress itself. It's just that she has the garb on and no matter how well it fits, what the style is, or if it aligns with my personal taste, she's a bride and that's beautiful.

Which means that I could wrap myself in a few rolls of toilet paper and shuffle down the aisle with a handful of somebody's front yard perennials in my fist, and no one would really think twice about it, which is good. That gives me hope that in this sea of ugly wedding dresses, if I can just manage to secure the one that is least ugly, I'm winning.